Worried about Teen Sex? Talk to THEM.
It's no surprise that Underage sex (like so many other problems of childhood) can be directly related to parental involvement.
A recent article on "Psychology Today" gives a nice short summary to consider.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-2139.html
In essence, remember these three things:
1. Perceptions of peer pressure leads to sex at an earlier age. Many young teens think "ALL" of their friends are having sex when in fact it's likely the minority. Help them to understand that and not to listen to the media and television that makes teenage sex seem so omnipresent.
2. Young Teens (particularly females) dating much older partners leads to sex at an earlier age. This is difficult to deal with and can often be a source of great family drama and disputes. Again.... talk to your teenager and let them know of your concerns. Be steadfast and show your support for your child. They will understand and hopefully make mature decisions.
3. Underage sex may not be preventable but RISKY sexual behavior may be. Research suggest that parents that have frequent conversations about the dangers of sexual activity greatly reduced high risk behaviors by their children. TALK TO THEM and OFTEN!
ultimately, all young adults will make their own decisions. Parents, be there and be active for your children. Trust that they will make good decisions (with your guidance.)
Most importantly... HUG them and let them know you love them no matter what.
A recent article on "Psychology Today" gives a nice short summary to consider.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-2139.html
In essence, remember these three things:
1. Perceptions of peer pressure leads to sex at an earlier age. Many young teens think "ALL" of their friends are having sex when in fact it's likely the minority. Help them to understand that and not to listen to the media and television that makes teenage sex seem so omnipresent.
2. Young Teens (particularly females) dating much older partners leads to sex at an earlier age. This is difficult to deal with and can often be a source of great family drama and disputes. Again.... talk to your teenager and let them know of your concerns. Be steadfast and show your support for your child. They will understand and hopefully make mature decisions.
3. Underage sex may not be preventable but RISKY sexual behavior may be. Research suggest that parents that have frequent conversations about the dangers of sexual activity greatly reduced high risk behaviors by their children. TALK TO THEM and OFTEN!
ultimately, all young adults will make their own decisions. Parents, be there and be active for your children. Trust that they will make good decisions (with your guidance.)
Most importantly... HUG them and let them know you love them no matter what.
Categories: General Pediatrics and Teens
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